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     If we are bf/gf, but we want to keep it a secret, are we living in a fantasy? | [q] 2015-04-25 16:28
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Hey, just a theoretical question, actually. I always thought: you can't really use, like: a public forum such as this one, to ask a girl (or boy, for this example) if she will be your girlfriend, or if she will be somehow your "special love interest," depending on how anyone would want to call it... Because doing that in public: it applies too much pressure on the other person, and therefore there decision becomes based on making the crowd happy, instead of being just between the people involved.

But also, if you never tell anyone about your relationship, it kind of loses its meaning, if not its value. Look at it this way: (for example)

I think in November (5 months ago) I said sth to Tira like: "if you will be my wife..." (...then sth else) as if arguing that, I guess to describe that it would be more of a positive factor for me, if I have more time that I can talk with Tira. This can help explain why I'm posting this.

So for example, is it meaningless that I would say that in CD or on JJ2, but at that point, there's ultimately no way to spend more than 5 seconds assessing that idea? That's the difference between a chat like in JJ2, versus using a public forum such as this. Alternatively, for example, there's infinite differences between a private conversation and an open debate - but the reality is that neither are set in stone; there is only a spectrum between the two conceptual walls, if that makes sense.

So: is it meaningful (the notion of a relationship that's not publicized versus the same notion that is publicized)? Still, a theoretical question, not based on fact. (Given that any answer is obviously correct or incorrect, fluctuating depending on any number of variables.)
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#1 | [q]2015-04-25 16:44
Uh... I'll just be a good boy and let tira answer to her forum ;D

The answer is no imo.